5 Tips: How to be a (respectful) stranger in a strange land
There is nothing quite as exhilarating and educational as travel. In a new country with different customs and foods, you will broaden your horizons in a way that can only happen through experiencing a new culture. It goes without saying that you want to be a gracious and respectful guest in a new country. How do you do that? It’s not too hard - it takes just a little effort and thought. Here are 5 tips to help you be a respectful stranger in a strange land.
Learn the language
While many people across the globe speak English, one should not assume that’s always the case. Try to learn a few key phrases. This not only will be helpful in your travels but also shows the locals that you are trying. There are plenty of free online resources, and phrase books and programs at your local library that provide a cursory overview of many different languages. Even if you just learn “hello,” “please” and “thank you,” locals will appreciate your effort. (Also, Google Translate is your new best friend.)
Respect local customs
If you don’t know and respect certain local customs, it could result in a potentially embarrassing, or even offensive, situation. Simple things like greetings or pointing fingers or tardiness or dress code can represent BIG faux pas in many cultures. Spend a little time studying up on the local customs and etiquette in the countries you will be visiting. Understanding and practicing these nuances shows great respect for your hosts.
Be aware of your surroundings
Yes, you’re trying to navigate a new city and find your way, but be aware of those around you. Don’t stand in the middle of a sidewalk with your map. Don’t stop at the bottom (or top) of an escalator with your luggage and try to figure out which way to go. Step to the side to examine your travel app or subway map. Or better yet, research and plan your route before you hit the streets. Remember, there are people all around you who are going about their daily lives and routines. (Download the map.me app for offline navigation.)
Practice smart photography
A big part of travel involves photography - capturing the beauty of the country and people we are visiting. However, you need to be thoughtful and respectful with your picture taking. Never photograph anyone without their permission, especially children - that can be misconstrued as dangerous and/or creepy. Photographs should respect and empower a country, not degrade them. Also, taking certain photographs (government buildings, etc.) in some countries can land you hot water. Be careful! “Whether it be holy sanctuaries or native faces, asking for permission and becoming familiar with the culture’s Dos and Don’ts is key.” Here is a great resource for photography etiquette in foreign countries.
Always be humble
Don’t be the stereotypical obnoxious tourist. Humility goes a long way. Acknowledge that you don’t know everything. Ask for input from locals. You will likely get the best recommendations for genuine experiences that are off the beaten path this way. Be humble. Ask for help. Be respectful. You’ll find the locals will be open and kind as they want you to have a good experience in their country.
At the end of the day, it’s all about respect. Doing a little research and practicing good manners and mindful etiquette will enrich your travel experience.
